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Cyberbullying
These days bullying doesn’t just happen in the playground. Cyberbullying – or bullying via technology – is now very common, and it can also be harder to spot and more difficult to deal with. Methods of cyberbullying

Cyberbullying happens over the internet and mobile phones. It is harder to prevent because on the internet people can use different names in chat rooms, or send messages from temporary email addresses. It is estimated that it affects twice as many girls as boys.
The most common methods of cyberbullying include:
- chat rooms, blogs and forums – although many of these are moderated, people involved in discussions can be sent abusive responses
- text messaging – abusive and threatening texts can be sent to mobile phones
- picture and video clip messaging – offensive images can be sent to mobile phones
- email – new addresses can be set up in minutes and used to send offensive messages and images
- social networking and personal websites – messages and images can be posted in the relevant sections of these sites
- Instant Messenger – quicker than email, this allows users to have conversations
- webcams – usually used to view each other when chatting online, children can also be sent abusive images or encouraged to act in an inappropriate way while being filmed
- Virtual Learning Environments (VLEs) – online software used by schools to enable staff and pupils to interact with each other, abusers can use the various forms of communication to send offensive images and message
- video hosting sites – children may be accidentally exposed to pornographic images or even find themselves the subject of films being shown
What are the immediate effects of cyberbullying?
Children who are bullied can be affected in many different ways, including loss of confidence, chronic anxiety, poor concentration, depression (even suicide in extreme cases). Physically they may lose weight and suffer from fatigue. Signs of bullying may also include truancy (usually solitary), school refusal, withdrawal and mood swings.
What parents can do
As with other types of bullying, it is important for parents to be alert to the possibility that their child may be bullied. It is common - as many as a quarter of primary school children and 1 in ten pupils in secondary school are being bullied. It is equally important that parents listen to their child and react with sympathy – children should know that bullying of any kind is always wrong and that seeking help is the right thing to do.
Try the following tips to help keep your child safe from bullying:
- encourage your child to talk to you about anything that’s upsetting them
- make sure they only use moderated chat rooms
- get them to show you any abusive or offensive messages they’ve received and keep a record of them
- tell them never to respond to any abusive messages or calls – this is frequently what the abuser wants
- tell them to avoid giving their name, email address or mobile phone number to people outside their circle of friends and family
- change email address or telephone number if the abuse continues
- report any abuse to the police, your child’s school, the internet service provider, the website manager/moderator or the mobile phone company
- install computer software to ensure that you only receive emails from people you have chosen and to block unwanted images
If a child is actually being bullied:
- Take it seriously. Give the child all the time necessary to tell you fully about what has been going on.
- Give reassurance that your child was right to tell you and effective measures will be taken to put an end to it.
- Include your child in devising a plan of action
- Tell the school and make sure you, too, are taken seriously. Find out what is the anti-bullying policy/strategy.
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